Beta, Falling in love with an individual person(men or women) will always bring suffering. I am telling you one truth. Don't fall in LOVE. Instead, RISE in LOVE with the whole UNIVERSE. Then there will be no problem.
Don't watch Kabir Singh kinda films. It will make you have a wrong understanding of love failure and their further effects.
LOVE IS NOT BLIND. It is just many people became BLIND to see real love. Real love means to love everything equally.
When you give special preference to one person more, then LOVE becomes BLIND.
If you have any doubt then ask me, son.